Workaholic!!! I doubt it...

"You gotta make a choice, she said, it's your job or me..." Well, the choice seems to be all made between your living and your love. You gotta live first so as to love! Logical, responsible, practical, acceptable, respecable, presentable... as Supertramp would put it :)
If you ever had to undergo such a situation, I guess your choice was just as mine... your job of course.
I don't know why some people like to put themselves on a scale with some universal realities! They just don't seem to get hold of the natural course of life... Anyway, maybe it's a shared responsibility as well. I think it's always a good thing to set the lines of conduct inside each and every kind of human relation so as not to get any surprises.
A woman needs a job for self fulfillment, they say! Well, a man needs a job for a simpler and more natural reason... to eat and, in many cases, to feed a family!